What is life?

Family

   Our life starts from Family and ends with family. Or we can say the other name of Life is family. They can be blood relation and cannot be blood relation. As we know unfortunately some people are not blessed with a family in blood relation but that doesn’t means they never had their own family, God, friends and relatives can also be someone’s family. If a person thinks in positive manner then he/she had everything he/she needs.

It plays the role of both strength and weakness in a person’s life. In every situation we need our family from birth to death, happiness to sadness, winning to losing etc.

First of all our Grandparents from both mother as well as father ‘side, we are the most special gifts from our parents they can expect, So it is our duty to keep them happy by respecting them. They bless us before our birth and even after their death.

Secondly our parents ,they are the real fighters for us .In other sense we can say  they are our God, if we love and respect  our  Parent  then there is no need of going in Temple , Gurdwara , Church or Mosque  or any other religious places  for worshiping and praying . Blessing and Happiness of our parents are above all.

Mother : It is not only a word actually it is a world .She is the one because whom we are living . She is the one  who suffers lots of pain to give us birth and she forget all the pain after seeing their child and that day become the one of the best day of her life. She deserves biggest thanks. In this whole no one can love us more than our Mother.

Now I want to share a songs which truly describe Mother,Maa,Ammi,Mai,Mummy.

Some people may not understand the meaning of the lyrist used in this song because it is in Punjabi and Urdu. So, I decided to write a subtitle or meaning of the song in English so everyone will realize the importance of this song.

If you want God to be happy then care for your mother forever,,,

Just by looking at your mother with love,,,,

is like doing pray just by Sitting at home,,,,

When I first learned how to speak before learning,,,,

To say God, I learned to how say Maa first..,

I do not know how to speak nor how to open my mouth,,,

But I said Maa when I did not even know how to speak,,,

From sitting on my legs until I stood on my legs,,,

My mother never slept until I was asleep,,,

My love for her is the result of her staying awake all night ,,,

The one who knows how to stay up all night,,,

Not even one bit of grief was allowed to come my way,,,,

Nor was my hair allowed to get dirty,,,,

She would sit me up with my fingers in her fist,,,

She would stay hungry herself, but keep me full,,,

My blood carries the sweetness from her chest,,,,

I heard there have been Angels in our presence,,,,

Also, there are relation who breathe with you,,,,

I have seen my mother, but I haven’t seen an Angel,,,,

I have never known a relation better than a Mother’s,,,

With whose breaths I have learned to breathe,,,

Before learning to say God, I learned to how say Maa first,,,,

The Maa who holds against  her chest and heals,,,

The Maa who say “Bismillah” before we fall,,,,

Who lies me down on the dry cloth, but would sleep on the wet herself,,,,

The one who has given birth to many king,,,,

Who has ever gives her a prize for any one night ?,,

A man can buy the world whenever he wants,,,,

But who can ever pay back the loan due to her raising us,,,

I thoroughly researched all the books,,,

My eyes never read a word sweeter than Maa,,,

The one who is like heaven on earth ,,,

The one who is a form of God…that is Maa,,,

Hot air never touches him,,,

The blessing is of a distinct status and the relief in priceless,,,

The one who has his Maa close by, has his Lord close to him,,,

Whose hand I held to learn to walk,,

Before learning to say God, I learned how to say Maa first,,,

Off all the creation the one who is most beloved,,,

He too was referred to as the beloved of his Maa,,,

Hussan and husayn were the special of the special,,,

Only because Fatima was the Maa, That they are the grandsons of the Prophet,,,

The lord said to Musa, listen,,,

Now there is no one behind  you the raises their hands for you,,,,

Whether he be  Ghauz, or a Qutb, or whether it is an Abdal,,,

Or even if it is Salak or Jhulay lal,,,,

O’people,it is here where we find our destination,,,

Moses,Jessud,Nanak and Ran too,,

Have you ever seen anyone given this kind of rank?If you have then tell me !

May we always stay in sight of our mothers ,,,

May the lord never close the door of blessings,,,

Not for one moment, should mother be out of Sight,,,,

With whom I have learned to be content around,,,,

Before learning to say God, I learned how to say Maa first,,,

After the protection of God, it is in the laps of mothers where you find security,,,

Even God listens closely whenever a mother prays,,,,

Mother are the coolness in the shade ,,,

Lord, the one with authority, the one gentle on his creation,

The merciful one, there is none like him,,,

After the Lord there is none,,,

Amongst the relationship in the world, there is no companion ship

better than that of a Mother,,,

Even if the son is the Boss of world,,,,

He is not comparable to the mothers foot,,,

Mother are the coolness in the shade,,,,

The lap of the Mother is,,,,

It is from here that you set your life direction,,,,

 And became datha,khaja,fareed and other like them,,,

Who become the sourse of relief for troubled hearts

If Maa is the one who carries moderty and respect,,,,

Then the sons also become Ghauz and Saqlain,,,

If the leader of the women in heaven is a mother,,,

The the beloved son also becomes the generous husayn,,,

Mother as the coolness in a shadow,,,

If you want to be relieved of all troubles in this world,

then I will tell you a formula,,,

In whatever state you find your mother happy,,,

Then live in that same state as well,,,,

Do not talk loudly, to your mother,,,,

And when you are is front of your mother, saw your lips shut,,,,

When you are in dire need for peace,,,

Then was your mother feet and drink it!

Mother are the coolness in the shade,,,

(Watch now the poet has raised the honor of the mother in the next verse )

Even if the son is full of shortcomings,,,,

Still Mass covers all his faults,,,

Even for the one who does not obey or the one who rebels,,,

The mother does not tire of speaking good about him,,,

Even if the Son is hurt or at a loss,,

The wound actually strikes on the mother  heart,,,

The one who is patient and full of love,,,

The son is the one who eats, but is the mother who

Finds it filling,,

Mother are the coolness in shade,,,

   Father: He is the one to whom we can call Superhero in our life. He sacrifices many things to fulfill our wants and needs. For him we are the world best toy which he do not want lose. Our smiles relax and help him to forgot all the tiredness .He always ready to help and hard work for our happiness in other words we can also say that he is first friend of our life.

  
    
             Some people think that for a father daughter is a headache but it is not true .We can say daughter is the beautiful responsibility of his life. If he is able to complete all his responsibility pure heartily then he makes God happy. It is also or duty to help him and decrease the problems which he faces, it makes him more strong. He may scold and hit you never take it in negative manner, this is also a manner of care by him because he wants to see your happy and do not want to see in any bad condition. When he scolds at that time he got hurt more than you. It may happen sometime your father do not understand at that point of time you can try to make him understand by talking in simple manner. Avoid angriness it only create problems.

  Brother and Sister: They are our best friends. They are first with whom we share our secrets, play, fights, and many others things. Whenever we face problems or difficulty, at that time they are the one who always ready for us. They do not even think of how to help they just do it, after parents they are the one who can do anything for us.

    We usually spend the most memorable moments with them after all they are in our blood relation and blood connects heart. Sometimes we fight with them; there is nothing bad in doing this but its better if it not becomes big fights which create problems. Sometime it’s better to solve it by talking which will help a lot. Love your brothers and sisters because they are the one whom your parent loves a lot.

   As family never ends the discussion on family also never ends but now I have to end as I already write a lot about it. In last I  only want to tell everyone I haven’t write this blog to applause or comments my work is completed when after reading it you understand the meaning of family and everyone says thanks to their family in any manner like by saying Love u, by hug, kiss, saying thanks ,by touching their foots .